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ophelia · 08-25-2004, 05:01 PM

Wow, some answers already?

Thank you.

He is understanding of the lowest partner theory; the pressure to hurry is more self-induced than not. I feel like he is missing something important to him and I am standing in the way.

The therapy is his idea. He says I need to work on jealousy anyway. Of course, I don't see myself as a raging jealous lunatic, but he is not the first to notice a jealous streak in me, so something must be there. He says it would be a good issue to work on anyway.

He also suggest I work on my own self-esteem as my jealousy may spring from a fear of losing him. He has a point. I certainly see my husband as a 10 with myself as a solid 6 1/2. He tells me ll the time I could never lose him and he loves me to pieces, but I still have a small voice in my head wondering why????? I have bout 15-20 more baby pounds to lose, but otherwise, I am pretty darn cute...I just don't remember that all the time when compared to him.

Yep, I know, I have him on a pedestal.......

08-25-2004, 05:01 PM	#5 (permalink)
ophelia Registered Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 7 Location: Texas	Re: "Taking one for the Team"? Wow, some answers already? Thank you. He is understanding of the lowest partner theory; the pressure to hurry is more self-induced than not. I feel like he is missing something important to him and I am standing in the way. The therapy is his idea. He says I need to work on jealousy anyway. Of course, I don't see myself as a raging jealous lunatic, but he is not the first to notice a jealous streak in me, so something must be there. He says it would be a good issue to work on anyway. He also suggest I work on my own self-esteem as my jealousy may spring from a fear of losing him. He has a point. I certainly see my husband as a 10 with myself as a solid 6 1/2. He tells me ll the time I could never lose him and he loves me to pieces, but I still have a small voice in my head wondering why????? I have bout 15-20 more baby pounds to lose, but otherwise, I am pretty darn cute...I just don't remember that all the time when compared to him. Yep, I know, I have him on a pedestal.......