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Originally Posted by ophelia He already has me going to a therapist to work on jealousy issues so that won't be a problem, but what else can I do? Can I do anything to hurry this process along? He deserves my very best effort; I just don't know how to start. |
Whoa! Now what is this about, ophelia? He has you going to a therapist to work on jealousy issues so that won't be a problem? A problem with what? With swinging? Other than this thing with swinging, are you unreasonably jealous?
Good Times is right - swinging isn't for everyone. Beyond that, tho', it is really concerning to me that this is something you feel you can't do yet
you are the one going to a therapist. What about him? Is he going to therapy with you? If you are going to therapy to deal with jealousy issues related to swinging, it would be my suggestion he go with you to deal with
his issues of trying to make you do things you are not comfortable with. Most any couple on this board will tell you the thing about moving as fast as the slowest partner and that's all well and fine. But this therapy thing has me shaking my head.
Please come back with more details. Hopefully, I've got this totally wrong.
- EBF
