[robnbarb]

Well I will add to this.

When I wanted to approch the wife about the lifestyle, I got this idead that if I presented her with plenty of porn of well endowed men she would get horny and want to. To my surprize that did not work.

We discussed it later and came to the realization that penis size was my issue. My fantasy is to watch her get fucked by a realy well endowed man with both length and girth. She admits she is intimidated by a large cock.

Now does that mean size is an issue, not really. When we start choosing we won't make that a deal breaker. but the point is all this time I, the man, have had the size thing going on. No I am not gay or bi, I am quite straight. I just get turned on by the idea of her getting fucked by a big man who knows what he is doing (ie being gentle).

I myself am of adverage legnth and width, but know I statisfy her just fine.

I suppose my point here is to prove its more of a man's issue that a woman's.