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Old 08-22-2004, 02:10 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default If your first club visit isn't what you expect, do you give it a second chance?

I get to read all of the reviews that come in (since I'm the one that has to post them), and one thing I've noticed a lot is how often first experiences at a club are "no fun", especially for the single guys (but that's another story). My question is this, when you visit a club for the first time, what do you expect?

If you don't get what you expect the first time, are you willing to give a club a second try? Why? or Why not?

It just seems like so often people expect to walk into a club the first time out and meet someone and have sex that night and if they don't then they are pissed at the club. It goes back to some advice we give here quite often on not having any expectations when you visit a club for the first time. But I think most often we only apply that advice to first timers / newbies going to a club for their very first time and not to people in general going to any club for the first time. Yet, it does apply to everyone, because even if you've been to another club or many clubs before and you decide to check out a new club, one time still may not be enough to judge it on, especially when you are going in comparing it to a club that you've visited many times and are comfortable at with the knowledge that you know people and will probably always have a good time.

Thoughts?
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