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Old 08-20-2004, 03:22 PM   #21 (permalink)
WesternSwing
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Default Re: What is your piece of advice to beginners?

1) Make sure you have some good ground rules set before you go out. Or at least make sure you are both on the same page regarding what you want out of swinging. It sucks to find out you crossed the line in some way with your spouse after you already have. The more experienced you get the less rules you may have, but when you start out sometimes stuff you didn't think would bother you, does.

2) Remember you are in control. Don't feel pressured to do something with someone else you don't want to. This included even getting involved with them. You can walk away from any situation you are uncomfortable in. Remember you are in it for YOUR fun.

3) Always remember that your spouse is the most important person in the room.

I'm sure I'll think of more, but there is my starter list.

Mr. WS
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