I just wanted to extend my appreciation to all that applied. You seem to have a very wonderful and open community here.
We have listened and taken your advice. We posted an advertisement over at swinglifestyle.com. I can't say dating ads. of any type are something either of us have any experience with, so any input would be appreciated.
http://CuriosityKilt.swinglifestyle.com
I realize photos are important, that is something we will have to discuss.
If nothing comes of it, atleast I can say the effort wasn't wasted. I've learned a lot and I think our relationship has already grown stronger, just by being able to be so open with each other. And it has led to some great sex!
Ps. If it doesn't already exist, you should compile a thread of positive first time experiences from a woman's point of view. I think that would help female newcommers out.