Mr here
I'll jump in with the club vs. ad thing.
I agree with the others. We have been with people from the clubs we have been to that we would not have given a second look at from their profile.
Some of the people we have swung with at clubs are some of the funnest people to be around. Unfortunately you can't get that from a written profile on a computer screen. All you have on a computer is a visual. Which is important. But we have found that even if we were not all that phisicaly attracted to them in the beginning (people we meet in clubs) we become more physicaly attracted to them as we get to know them.
Personality does So Much!! |