Greg & Sheryl
We enjoy the MFM, but not because I have a decreased drive... Of course, I'm 35... That may be it for some, but not for us. I am a machine unto myself
I think you hit it on the head with the maturity aspect. I know that will ruffle a few feathers, but I think men are probably not as secure yet - and women are probably even less, so they go with another woman to please their man.
Of course - it is just conjecture and generalizations are always bound to lead to someone being upset, so I will co-opt your disclaimer and say that I seriously hope I haven't offended anyone. Just thinking out loud. There are always exceptions - especially since my theory is anything but a rule.
I do maintain that swinging is a sport for the middle aged...
Spoomonkey