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Originally Posted by Spoomonkey There is a difference because single women are hard to come by (from what I've heard ; ) and men are dogs... I'd like to say that in the future I will stick to my guns on that issue, but I realize that the chance certainly exists that an attractive female (single or married) would probably be welcome to play. The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak - I suppose. |
We can relate to this double standard because we’ve been guilty of it, ourselves. Several months ago, based on the recommendation of a close friend, we tried to hook up with a bisexual female who was cheating on her husband. She is a woman about 50 years old with a very strong sex drive, but her husband has completely lost interest in sex. Thus, she always has to come up with a good cover story for her husband every time she wants to get away and get naughty.
While we do almost all of our swinging on Saturday nights, she is primarily available on weekday afternoons while her husband is at work, so it was a challenge for her to find the time to meet us. Out of the three meetings we eventually scheduled, once she was 30 minutes late, and twice she had to cancel at the last minute. Eventually we gave up on her. Part of the problem was that her husband is a former military cop. He had caught her cheating once before, so he was very suspicious of her. If he had ever caught her with us, who knows how he might have reacted?
Based on this experience, it’s unlikely that we will ever swing with a cheater again. A lot of swingers won’t play with cheaters for moral reasons, but for us, we simply want to avoid the inevitable drama that occurs when you get caught up in a situation like that.