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Originally Posted by good times While we normally won't play with couples that have a no kissing rule as my wife considers kissing a neccesary part of forplay, you are definitely not alone in your feelings about this as we have met a few couples that have a no kissing rule. |
We are the same way we prefer not to play with couples that don't kiss because we have and for me it is just harder to 'warm up' so to speak. You are not alone though there are a lot of couples that don't kiss you have to do what you are comfortable with. Mr Spoo and I always say we are in the lifestyle for us not others so we just look for people who are okay with our rules and us with theirs.
When we first started though I was like you "no kissing" "no swapping" just soft swing. Ha, that didn't last long - I put the rules up thinking I couldn't stand to see him with another woman but each experience turned me on so much we moved ahead pretty quickly
Go at your own pace for the two of you and keep communication open and share your concerns with each other. You'll either keep the no kissing rule or throw it out the window.
Mrs Spoomonkey