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Old 08-11-2004, 05:02 PM   #17 (permalink)
Spoomonkey
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Originally Posted by TeamSoBe
We're totally not shy about wrestling somebody to the ground in business and raping their money out of them. It's only in bed that we're pushovers.


Okay - that tickled me...

But - to answer your question, in life and business I am a classic non-conformist (read: unpromotable). I am neither "top" or "bottom" - though I think I have a rather strong personality that is humorous and problem solving... I'm not the "salesman" type... I can sell anything, but I would never make a living at it... And if you are in business, you know the kind of guy I am talking about.

But - in our relationship, I think that we are both pleasers of each other, but she is much more so than me. So - I tend to make "final" decisions after we've talked about it... In other words, "Okay - then we're going to Logan's"... That after we've both asked "what are you hungry for?" for about an hour...

You would likely not see my "top" side if we were all out socially, because Mrs Spoomonkey and I get along so well and have never had an arguement. But - on the other hand, I am the kind of husband who can put his foot down when it needs to be put down. That sounds like a bad thing... But it really isn't in practice. We are equals in everything - except of course for giving head... She's great at that and I just don't...



She is the brains behind the Spoomonkey franchise, though. Usually when I have to say, "this is what we are doing" it is because she has convinced me before convincing herself...

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