[sensuality]

The first experience my hunny and I had was a FMF threesome...kissing was never an issue,we both kissed her and she kissed us...thoroughly facelick We had discussed everything ahead of time and things went well.Except for one thing that bothered me...this girl had a clit ring and had taken it out so I could go "down south" on her.When we were all finished,she and I took a shower...and while I was getting dressed, she was having trouble putting the ring back in her clit...so my hunny helped her {I was out of the room}...THAT bothered me...ironically,even though I really love this part about my husband,he's very kind and helpful.I just felt like that was too intimate of a gesture for me.Let her put her own damn clit ring back in. Well, now,I'm over all of that.We talked about it and got it out of the way and it wasn't so much that he put it in for her, it was that he did it when I was out of the room , I would have liked to have watched Geez!!{I know, control freak} .The point is, all of us have our own idiosynchrocies{sp?} And, what bothers one person, may not bother the other.In this lifestyle, you'd be surprised!What you think might not bother you, ends up bugging the hell out of you and then the thing you thought would bother you,usually doesn't after all... It's definitely a process!