Hello there! This is the female part of 2Gether
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I have a problem, and was wandering if people have had the same thing...
So, we're knew to the Lifestyle, have been to a club once. Had an innocent experience there (just touching
)... we've also got to know a couple who'll probably be our playmates some time (I've a very good feeling about them)..
We've talked months about changes we'll have to go trough, discussed, compared, visualized, etc.. And I'm starting to feel quite good about it (however my feelings can change day by day; very frustrating
). There's just one thing that keeps 'hounting' me; although I think I can deal pretty good with seeing my hubby play (touching, fondling, having a blowjob, etc), I just cant stand the thought of him kissing (tongues) another woman...
I can keep love and sex apart pretty wel, but kissing is a 'love-thing' to me...
Is this weird ('cause it feels as a very natural reaction to me)?
My hubby doesn't mind this, he says it'll be one of our 'rules' untill we see how things go, maybe my feelings will change. But I can imagine it being a nuisance to other couples. I'd feel like a fool to say;'Sex is fine but no kissing please'...
Or does this occur more often then I think?