 Re: size question
Well, I am totally a newby, but am a little heavy (think Jack Black size), so I think I have something positive to add to this thread.
When I was younger I used to be very insecure, and have always been towards the heavier side.
At the same time, as I grew older and became more confident, I simply don't feel insecure at all. Objectively, I am still handsome, and have many other qualities, that women find attractive- my wit, my musical and artistic endeavors, my confidence, my ability to put people at ease, and my empathic nature.
Admittedly, I am sure it can "feel" more difficult for a woman, when society seems to place more expectations on appearance. Still, my advice is to focus on the things that make you feel good about yourself! Don't take rejection personally, because people are finicky. There are so many different types of people, with various interests, that it is a wonder that people can make a connection at all !
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