[ALilOEverything]

I haven't voted yet, I haven't completely sorted this out though my instinct is to vote I'm the top and he's the bottom. As I've mentioned before my husband can be/wants to be submissive...therefore the bottom. I'm definitely a dominating one in our relationship...but I don't feel that makes me a top. And if I'm not a top then I should be a bottom. But I'm not a bottom because I do like a certain amount of control. I'm not a switch because I don't care for either extreme. So basically, I'm in the middle. I prefer to give as much direction as I take...at least in the bedroom. I guess in general life I really am the top and he really is the bottom. Who knows. Chances are you could ask this every week and I'll give a different answer!