thanks again, everyone.
i think that we've made it pretty clear in our Swing Lifestyle profile that we are very new to this and are looking for only same-room at this point. we didn't want to misled anyone much less waste their time. we've decided to be completely forthcoming with each couple that we've talked to with our boundaries and expectations. so, basically, i'm not too worried about the "but we want to swap, what's up?" scenerio. if that comes up, i see it as a problem on their part and we don't really want to deal with pushy people anyway
