[WesternSwing]

When we got into it we were meeting many couples. Gawd knows we burned through the cash going out to dinner and drinks a couple of times a week meeting new people.

But when it came down to it our first experience was with a couple we met at a non-swing party hosted by some swingers. So there were lifestyle people there, but it was clear that it was a mixed party and no swinging was to happen. It was nice to meet this couple this way, eventually the opportunity arose, and we have had serveral good experiences with them since.

We are presently seeing two couples when the occasion permits, and honestly that is all we have time for. And we don't play everytime we see them either. Sometimes we just go to dinner or lunch.

Both couples know they are not the only ones, and we know that we are not their only playmates. It's never been spelled out, but from our casual conversation we don't expect it from them, and they don't expect it from us. The good thing is that we have found some people we are comfortable with, and they with us.

We will share experiences in conversation (probably how we know we are not the only ones), but never names. It's sexy, sometimes funny, and always breaks the ice and gets the motor revving.

Mr. WS