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Spoomonkey · 08-08-2004, 02:12 PM

The first couple we were involved with used the terms top and bottom to describe themselves. At the time, I thought that top and bottom were terms that were exclusive to the gay community. Not so... Basically, the dominant partner is the top - and the submissive is the bottom...

I know - I know - "duh, Spoomonkey. What's your point?"

Well - I am curious...

Who is the more dominant in your relationship? Or - if you are single - do you see yourself as a "top" or "bottom"?

In our marriage, I am usually the dominant one. Occassionally I enjoy letting Mrs Spoomonkey wrestle for control, only to take it from her as the activities progress. And she is more than happy to let me be the dominant one.

I have a fantasy about being "dominated", but it is not something that I could get into all the time. I am definitely an "alpha-monkey".

So - I am going to try my very first poll...

The question is - which are you?

08-08-2004, 02:12 PM	#1 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,563 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? Swing Lifestyle Name:Spoomonkey	Are you a Top or Bottom The first couple we were involved with used the terms top and bottom to describe themselves. At the time, I thought that top and bottom were terms that were exclusive to the gay community. Not so... Basically, the dominant partner is the top - and the submissive is the bottom... I know - I know - "duh, Spoomonkey. What's your point?" Well - I am curious... Who is the more dominant in your relationship? Or - if you are single - do you see yourself as a "top" or "bottom"? In our marriage, I am usually the dominant one. Occassionally I enjoy letting Mrs Spoomonkey wrestle for control, only to take it from her as the activities progress. And she is more than happy to let me be the dominant one. I have a fantasy about being "dominated", but it is not something that I could get into all the time. I am definitely an "alpha-monkey". So - I am going to try my very first poll... The question is - which are you? __________________ "Eros will have naked bodies; Friendship naked personalities." - C. S. Lewis Last edited by Spoomonkey : 08-08-2004 at 02:52 PM.