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Originally Posted by lovemonkey#1 so, here's the first part of my question. speaking from experience, what's a good number of couples to court at the same time without getting overwhelmed? 1? 3? 5? |
This really depends on the how many you feel you can juggle at one time. Some people only want one couple or single to play with on a long term basis, others will want many different ones.
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Originally Posted by lovemonkey#1 second part: once you get some swingtime logged in and you start to feel more comfortable with the lifestyle, how many couples do you tend to maintain relationships with and how often do you get together for playdates? |
We have one couple that we play with on a regular basis (at least once a month). We always try and keep at least three single men for regular playmates, but right now we are down to two as one just got a new girlfriend, which is cool, because her and I hit it off really well and as soon as time allows we will have another couple that is close that we can get with on a regular basis.
As far as how often do we play...well..some months it will be just about every weekend, other months maybe not at all or just one weekend. Depends of scheduling and what's going on in everyones life. We really have no set number and just usually play everything by ear. Even though we have regulars, should we meet someone else at a club or social and feel like playing we do, they may or may not become regulars.
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Originally Posted by lovemonkey#1 lastly, an etiquette question: if you're courting more than one couple at a time, is it considered rude to mention that you're seeing other couples or is that something that you just don't discuss? |
Everyone we play with knows that we play with others...we make it very clear that we are not in this to be exclusive with anyone.
Teresa