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Originally Posted by lovemonkey#1 hi guys,
recently my SO and i posted a profile on Swing Lifestyle and have gotten a fairly decent amount of responses. we're very flattered and we've been discussing possibilities. while we're not interested in all of the couples, there are several that have contacted us that we're intrigued by, as well as 10-15 more that we've searched out but have not contacted yet. we have yet to have our first experience and we've decided to take it slow. we'd prefer to start with same-room sex and, under the right circumstances, progress to a soft swap.
so, here's the first part of my question. speaking from experience, what's a good number of couples to court at the same time without getting overwhelmed? 1? 3? 5? |
We are on three swinger ad sites. We found that most contacts came right after we registered. We have guidelines we follow when eliminating prospective playmates. First, we are not interested in couples who make cock and pussy "introduction" pics public on their site. We'd rather they keep those private and open them to us when--or if--we want to see them. Second, we read their profile carefully to see how well they communicate who they are and what they want; if they sound uncertain, we don't pursue them. Third, physical attraction is important to us and this can narrow the field very quickly. We have not met with anyone yet. We spoke to a couple on the phone today and we may talk to another couple tonight. It took over six months to get to this point. We have a third couple who looks promising as well. We have found it takes plenty of focus to keep everyone's e-mail info straight. :rollseyes Three couples seems like plenty right now!
Since we have not yet been "out to play" I can't answer your second question.
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lastly, an etiquette question: if you're courting more than one couple at a time, is it considered rude to mention that you're seeing other couples or is that something that you just don't discuss?
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We like to let the other couple know that we have not yet swung...once we do swing, we will say we've been with one other couple...after we progress to more activity with the one couple or play with more people we'll probably say we have been active for about a year now (or whatever time frame is appropriate). We will not discuss who we play with--discretion is paramount.
I hope members will provide their opinions. I am eager to hear from others too!
LM
