Re: how much is too much? You are right, it depends on your comfort level. LOL
As for being discrete, I think that it is important to let others know that you are seeing others. Just no details. No names, handles etc.
As for an amount, a number, of couples, ummm...we started out with only one because we were so into them that we didn't have time for another couple. What with getting a sitter for our kids, arranging our schedules etc, it just wasn't possible. If you don't have those time constraints, 2-4 depending on how often you want to play and how much you want to juggle.
Currently, we have one couple we see regularly and 6-8 others we would play with if we saw at a club or party, or we might get together with them if our schedules meshed.
You could just invite all of them over to your place for a house party. LOL
Good luck to you,
LC
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Last edited by LadyCleo : 08-07-2004 at 07:34 PM.
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