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betty1213 · 08-06-2004, 03:43 PM

Like Minds:

thanks so much for yet another "ah hah" moment. perhaps there is a bit of truth as you are right I often do feel uncomfortable in social gatherings which is completely the opposite of how I am at work. It is often hard to relax because that control thing can get in the way. I am employed in healthcare and work mostly with men. Although the majority of the employees I supervise are women. I probably do have a tendency of being stiff until I relax and often first impressions are what stick in folks minds. I was never good at the vanilla dating of my youth and struggled with it then. I will try to figure out a way to be aware of this without changing who I am at heart.

I appreciate all the great feedback. I love this board as questions like this are ones you can't always ask at work!!!

08-06-2004, 03:43 PM	#11 (permalink)
betty1213 Active Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 12 Location: Oregon Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:betty1213	Re: assertive women Like Minds: thanks so much for yet another "ah hah" moment. perhaps there is a bit of truth as you are right I often do feel uncomfortable in social gatherings which is completely the opposite of how I am at work. It is often hard to relax because that control thing can get in the way. I am employed in healthcare and work mostly with men. Although the majority of the employees I supervise are women. I probably do have a tendency of being stiff until I relax and often first impressions are what stick in folks minds. I was never good at the vanilla dating of my youth and struggled with it then. I will try to figure out a way to be aware of this without changing who I am at heart. I appreciate all the great feedback. I love this board as questions like this are ones you can't always ask at work!!!