Yeah, I agree, it sounds like a little frustration there on your part dude! I can totally understand that!
I am the female half of this cpl, and though I was the one who started the interest in the lifestyle, I can honestly say that cheating was NOT something that entered my mind. I have to agree with everyone here...chat with your wife again on this topic, however I would give it a few days, maybe sit down with her and lightly bring up the topic. Maybe just start by asking her if she has any fantasies she would like to share with you, any new and neato sexual ideas, dirty stories you can tell one another in bed. Those are always fun and a way to break the ice! facelick I would also tell her how much you love her, and in no way would this be about cheating on her. My hubby and I like to keep our lines of communication very very open and that is what we did to start and we still do that to this day.
Best of luck to you and don't throw in the towel yet!
