Well, I'll tell ya what...I love an assertive woman. It takes some of the guesswork out of the equation; if you're actively fllirting with me, I know that you're at least somewhat interested and I'll respond to that.
Pretending you're somebody else just doesn't work. I think you
have to be who you are. Some will like you and some won't, but that's just the way it is. Gravitate toward those who do appreciate you for who you are and don't worry about the rest.
-B