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betty1213 · 08-04-2004, 02:58 PM

Thanks for all the responses so far. I feel better already. Being true to myself and of course to hubby is absolutely number one. I have left jobs in the past due to integrity so it is one of the most important things in my life.

To Julie: I don't really initiate flirting usually unless it is initiated by someone else. To my knowledge we haven't encountered anyone who has indicated I was being pushy. But as in life sometimes folks do misinterpret things.

I am also wondering of the wives out there: Do you shy away from couples whose wives are self confident or assertive? I haven't encountered this as most of the folks we've met the women have been fairly assertive themselves.

thoughts anyone?

As for the MILF...it is something I strive for (it makes my college age sons laugh out loud!) but haven't come close to acheiving yet.......

08-04-2004, 02:58 PM	#8 (permalink)
betty1213 Active Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 12 Location: Oregon Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:betty1213	Re: assertive women Thanks for all the responses so far. I feel better already. Being true to myself and of course to hubby is absolutely number one. I have left jobs in the past due to integrity so it is one of the most important things in my life. To Julie: I don't really initiate flirting usually unless it is initiated by someone else. To my knowledge we haven't encountered anyone who has indicated I was being pushy. But as in life sometimes folks do misinterpret things. I am also wondering of the wives out there: Do you shy away from couples whose wives are self confident or assertive? I haven't encountered this as most of the folks we've met the women have been fairly assertive themselves. thoughts anyone? As for the MILF...it is something I strive for (it makes my college age sons laugh out loud!) but haven't come close to acheiving yet.......