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jcbicouple · 08-03-2004, 08:52 PM

If this were the wife of the guy that broke their rules we would tell her to not play with the couple if she's uncomfortable now or doesn't feel as though he can be trusted to stick to their rules. Now we get to hear the other side of the story, and all we have to say is: You did nothing wrong. He did.
Unfortunately, You lost potential playmates, but it may be for the best in the long run. We wouldn't push the meeting them. His wife will no longer be comfortable, but you shouldn't feel guilty about that at all.

08-03-2004, 08:52 PM	#11 (permalink)
jcbicouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 680 Location: Indiana Status: Happily Married Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:jcbicouple	Re: I think I violated an implicit rule... If this were the wife of the guy that broke their rules we would tell her to not play with the couple if she's uncomfortable now or doesn't feel as though he can be trusted to stick to their rules. Now we get to hear the other side of the story, and all we have to say is: You did nothing wrong. He did. Unfortunately, You lost potential playmates, but it may be for the best in the long run. We wouldn't push the meeting them. His wife will no longer be comfortable, but you shouldn't feel guilty about that at all.
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