 Re: What is your piece of advice to beginners?
Discretion is definitely number one. Another one is don't get over anxious or in a hurry in the beginning. When we first started we thought it would be harder to hook up with couples than it is, so we pretty much hooked up with anyone willing. That often didn't work out to well because after the excitement of the first time has passed and you realize the attraction isn't there, it is uncomfortable making the other couple understand that you don't want to play with them any more. We have become much more selective and wish we had been that way from the beginning.
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