Hi everyone,
Nice to see so many who are open to whatever people are into. I think the key here and in all of swinging is to communicate. If everyone is in to it, then go for it. If not make changes, but don't quit the pursuit of fun.
I voted yes, but the reality is:
My wife is into male/male action. It makes her VERY hot

I am happy to oblige her if it makes everyone hot and isn't a problem for others. So I guess I just don't have as many boundaries. I really try to please in our playing.
If our partners are not into it, then it doesn't happen regardless of whether my wife wants it.
S