The Swingers Board - View Single Post - The other couple: one is very attractive, her/his partner is not

taomaster · 08-02-2004, 04:57 PM

Mrs. T here (my first post!). Last time we were with a couple it was in a club here in Belgium. We were already having fun by ourselves in a darkish part of the "relax area" when another couple came and laid down next to us. The woman reached over and made contact within a minute or two and we all started to play. Fairly soon however I noticed that my partner was not getting aroused when the woman started to play with him.

As you can tell there was not any conversation or opportunity to get to know each other first. In fact when I saw them in the light later I saw she was quite (to me) unattractive.

Question: is this not how things happen in clubs in the U.S.? Does everyone socialise first before deciding to play?

08-02-2004, 04:57 PM	#12 (permalink)
taomaster Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 79 Location: Europe Status: Couple	Re: The other couple: one is very attractive, her/his partner is not - do you swing? Mrs. T here (my first post!). Last time we were with a couple it was in a club here in Belgium. We were already having fun by ourselves in a darkish part of the "relax area" when another couple came and laid down next to us. The woman reached over and made contact within a minute or two and we all started to play. Fairly soon however I noticed that my partner was not getting aroused when the woman started to play with him. As you can tell there was not any conversation or opportunity to get to know each other first. In fact when I saw them in the light later I saw she was quite (to me) unattractive. Question: is this not how things happen in clubs in the U.S.? Does everyone socialise first before deciding to play?