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Old 08-02-2004, 07:47 AM   #4 (permalink)
wrnakedru
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Wink Re: The other couple: one is very attractive, her/his partner is not - do you swing?

Taking one for the team is the active, participating equivalent of going faster than the slowest partner.

We just don't happen to think anyone should have to do that; nor should they expect their partner to do so. And yes, it is difficult to find another couple where the attraction is equal all around. And while it may not always be exactly equal, if somebody is less than enthusiastic - they're not doing anybody a favor by participating. Least of all, themselves. :rollseyes

Think about it - would you want to be on the receiving end of something a person was doing only to appease their partner??

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