Re: The other couple: one is very attractive, her/his partner is not - do you swing?
We have both "taken one for the team" so to speak but have since agreed that we won't do that again. Finding a couple is like dating multiplied. It's hard enough to find someone you are attracted to both physically and conversationally but make that two people looking for two people it gets a little more difficult.
We do our best to find couples that (and no they don't have to be Ken and Barbie) are attractive to both of us and that we both enjoy talking to. It does mean that you may not play as often at the club, but it makes each experience much more enjoyable and no regrets when you get home.
Mrs Spoomonkey
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