I am not the longest stick in the woodbox either but have had very few complaints (1 from a lady married to a horse, my wife complained he was to big. Also he couldn't get it in or keep it up. Guess who had more fun that night LMAO
)I agree with other posts here, the way you use it is more important than size but i may be prejudiced. Just tell him or show him that others have this problem and we don't find that it is a PROBLEM
Ken