Hi all
Thanks so much for all the great advice

we have already changed some of the things we do.-We took some pictures and put them in our profiles..not face pictures..but less um..formal pictures

and we had alot of fun doing it!
We also talked over many of the comments everyone made

and are looking around for parties that may be in our area.
Hey Spoonmonkey, how cool is that! We would love to meet you so we could all throw things at each other, lol!