[IndyGirl2004]

One of the most important responsbilities parents have to their children is to help to make them feel secure - at least in their own home - and to feel that they are a prority and not a bother. Feelings of abandonment and low self-esteem can result. My husband had a somewhat similar situation with his parents when he was a teenager and I can tell you that it has played a large part in how he is as an adult in sexual and non-sexual situations. It's something he still has to deal with and there are times when his buttons are definitely pushed with these memories. Please tread carefully here. Maybe you will be able to have your wish to be part of the lifestyle and he will be able to overcome any negative feelings he might have, but please be patient, don't push. Maybe you can show him the positve things involved. Dunno. Good luck and the best of wishes to you both.