Hi RealCouple!
As it turns out, you are about 7 miles away from Spoomonkey Ranch...
Of course, try to picture a VERY small ranch
The personals have been seriously frustrating for us as well. We don't post pics at all. We are clubbers, but do try the internet from time to time.
I will say that one of the things that helps us is that we try to be liberal about meeting for a "vanilla" date with couples we are interested in. That gives you a very good idea of compatability rather quickly - and it is very non-threatening...
What could be less threatening than having dinner at Logan's and throwing peanuts like a bunch of high school kids?
Anyway - just wanted to encourage you. Real people are out here - even outside of the 270 loop!
Spoomonkey