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Originally Posted by BradAndJanet I am envious though, of all of you who enjoyed so much casual sex in your past. I was way too shy in college and missed out on all that. 
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I was wondering how long it would take to read a post that said what I felt.
I was raised to believe that you don't have sex unless you are in love. I was seventeen year old virgin when I met Mr LM in college. I fell in love, had sex, and I've had a monogamous vanilla sex life since. It's been fun, but over the past years I knew it could be better.
I did not blossom as a sexual being until the past year. I reached menopause and something hit me.
I wanted to know what it's like to have sex with other people!
Sexual fantasy has always been a big part of my life and I wasn't going to keep my interest in sexual exploration from Mr LM any longer. It took guts bringing my needs up to him, but to my relief and surprise, he was very open to the idea of swinging.
He had lots of sexual experience before we met. I had none.
For me it has been my lack of a promiscuious life that has brought me to swinging.
LM