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Old 07-30-2004, 04:36 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Default Re: First MFM should I???

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Originally Posted by TeamSoBe
I would ask each of them directly what the deal is, like what their fantasy is that they are into living out or what it is that makes them want to include you like that. It makes me feel less anxious if I know what my role is supposed to be and the communication feels reassuring. Some people like to be spontaneous.
Very good point. That way there is no question as to your role.

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Just don't take it too seriously and remember that their issues are more complex than yours.
Another good point. You get to go home and think nothing more of it. They have to live together and deal with any issues that may come up (such as the green eyed monster).

Come to think of it, being the single male can be a big responsibility. But done right, you'll be a king amongst them.

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