[Alura]

I'd suggest being very careful in dealing with your husband on the swinging issue. Still, you do not want to pass up this learning opportunity! Here is an aspect of which you were unaware which no doubt has a huge effect on your husband's personality and approach to life.

My thought is that y'all should talk about his experiences with his parents more than talking about swinging itself. Perhaps after sharing his thoughts on that with you, he'll be more open to swinging. If not, the least it can do is improve your communication with each other.

Your marriage is still young and y'all have many years ahead of you. Concentrate on sharing your most intimate thoughts, not making something happen.

Communication is important to marriage, vital to swinging.

Mr. Alura