[Spoomonkey]

Well...

Wow...

He definitely saw the bad side of swinging, that's for sure. We haven't met a couple that didn't seem to put their kids first, before their lifestyle. But, I am sure that it happens. It is pathetic that a parent would have such a disregard for their son, but I suppose it can happen. Wow... Go find a place to stay for the night??? That blows me away...

I would say that he has a very good reason for having a bad taste in his mouth about the lifestyle. But you have definitely opened an avenue of discussion for the two of you that may work it's way back here - and it may not. I wouldn't imagine that is the most important issue.

Tell him what you feel about the lifestyle; you interests and fantasies. Let him talk to you about his experience; his feelings and his anger. If nothing else, you will know a great deal more about each other, and that is always a good thing.

Will he ever think about the lifestyle? Who knows... I'm leaning towards "not any time soon."

Spoomonkey