[PotentialSwnger]

Okay Everyone!

Here is the situation...

I just recently introduced myself on the board. I had not talked to my hubby about my interest in swinging until yesterday!

He got online, after I had been on this site, and that's how he initially learned my interest in swinging. Not that I was hiding my interest from him, I just wanted to learn more about the lifestyle before I brought it to his attention. He approached me by saying, "I saw what you were looking at online." All I could do is smile, completely caught off guard, and wait for him to say something else.

He then, seductively, asked me, "Do you want to be a swinger? Do you want another mans penis?" While he was asking me these questions (and more) he was rubbing his crotch on me and kissing my neck!! After snapping out of the trance he had put me in, I told him that this was something I seriously wanted to discuss with him and learn his views on.

He listened to everything I had to say on the subject and I didn't get the reaction from him that I expected (which was for him to not give it a second thought and think that I am crazy). He actually sat and thought about it for a while with this being his response:

"I don't think that I could do it knowing that my father is a swinger. It is bad enough to know that your parents still have sex, but to walk in from high school, time after time, and witness my dad and step mom OBVIOUSLY flirting with two people that I had never seen before made it alot worse! My dad would hand me money and tell me to find somewhere to stay for the night while they "entertained" their company."

I had absolutely no reaction to that. I just stared not knowing if I should apologize for him having such an inconsiderate father or what.

I no longer know how to approach him on swinging since that statement. Should I even bother?

I'm sooooo confused!!!!