We all have bad days, sensuality, and maybe shadyvirgin had one, too. After all, having slept on the couch doesn't make for a good nights sleep....
I'd like to think that he would come back and realize that maybe there are better ways to communicate his negative feelings about things, and maybe realize we aren't here to offend, but to offer our opinions and suggestions based on personal experiences and beliefs. We do tease each other frequently, and sometimes new people don't realize our intent. It takes a while to get to know others and is a learning process in and of itself.
I hope he'll join us again...in a better mood.

- EBF
