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Dave_kat · 07-29-2004, 07:50 AM

It took me (Dave) almost two years to get comfortable with the fact of kat's bisexuality. Unfortunately, where we live, we have a predominance of gay/lesbians with very few admittedly bi women around. So in order for her to fulfill her desires for other women, well I've had to let go of the "play together" rule.

It was rough, and I'll freely admit I was feeling a bit jealous and inadequate with regards to the whole situation.

Most of the women that my wife meets/sleeps with are uncomfortable with my presence even in the same house (my imagineation runs wild, I'm thinking a lot of these women are afraid I'm going to jump in where I'm not wanted) and so when kat has a girl that she is sleeping with, I either have to leave if they have a date here, or she goes off to their place.

I've also learned not to ask questions. I honestly do not want to know some answers. Questions as to whether or not the girl eats her out better than I do is quite loaded, as in all honesty, what man can even think about competing with that (although I do give it my best darn shot)?

07-29-2004, 07:50 AM	#12 (permalink)
Dave_kat Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 181 Location: Savannah, Ga Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Dave_kat	Re: For Men and Women Who Go Solo It took me (Dave) almost two years to get comfortable with the fact of kat's bisexuality. Unfortunately, where we live, we have a predominance of gay/lesbians with very few admittedly bi women around. So in order for her to fulfill her desires for other women, well I've had to let go of the "play together" rule. It was rough, and I'll freely admit I was feeling a bit jealous and inadequate with regards to the whole situation. Most of the women that my wife meets/sleeps with are uncomfortable with my presence even in the same house (my imagineation runs wild, I'm thinking a lot of these women are afraid I'm going to jump in where I'm not wanted) and so when kat has a girl that she is sleeping with, I either have to leave if they have a date here, or she goes off to their place. I've also learned not to ask questions. I honestly do not want to know some answers. Questions as to whether or not the girl eats her out better than I do is quite loaded, as in all honesty, what man can even think about competing with that (although I do give it my best darn shot)? __________________ Reality is based on perception, therefore everyone has their own reality.