[desert_dwellers]

I would liek to say something here...

I am wife to J (desert_dwellers) and when I approached hubby with the "idea" of an open relationship, I don't think it was something he expected. I am a lover of sex....in all aspects. I haven't found many women like that. I run a website for Moms and give sex advice to those that come to me (most do). I am shocked at how many woman are actually TURNED off from the act of sex itself....and when they actually are willing to LEARN hwo to become better at it, they still are SHOCKED at some of the ideas I try to introduce. Yet..... they WANT to know. These woman WANT to please their husbands.

I would tell you now, take it VERY slow. Some women find it embarassing to admit their wants and needs. Altho....most admit, they WANT another man. Kinda funny how that works huh?????

Just take baby steps....one day at a time. It may be something she may NEVER want. You will know if you have enough communication.

I can say.... me and my husband have communication and it's probably the one thing that makes our relationship work. I urge all women on my site to make DAMN sure they have total communication with their spouses and significant others. If not, all else will fail.

Hope yer off the couch! I always hated that in my last marriage! LOL


-S