[shadyvirgin]

Wow, she finally went to bed. I checked on my post a few times today and couldn't wait to respond. You guys rule!!! I'm talking "Budweiser True". I never expected such a response.

First, Mr.Alura, last night was not the first time I spent the night on the couch. It was hardly your fault. I have no idea if my friend has talked to his wife about this yet after he found out I was interested. I know they have talked about this before though. Tell me what you think about this: We have been having a cookout on the 4th of July for the past several years and there is usually at least 30 people here. She and I somehow wind up alone long enough for her to tell me she and her husband were talking about me/us the other day and asked me to ask her husband about it sometime when we were alone. Thats when the whole thing got going at lunch that day a few weeks ago.

EBF - I appreciate your response and am very glad I was able to make you chuckle. I can laugh at myself with the best of 'em. Mabye I will make you really laugh one day.

Sensuality - She didn't make me sleep on the couch. I slept on the couch because I was a little hurt. She called me sick. I do not think I am sick, I was just trying to be honest. I have not told anyone excepy you about my conversation with my friend.

I did find out last night for the first time that my wife is very insecure. She actually thinks that if I stick my dick in another woman that I will lose my mind and forget my way home. I mean there is a flip side to that. What if she gets some dick thats alot bigger and better than mine? And likes it. I am not worried that she will pack up and leave.

Before she went to bed we were talking about something and she said I was crazy. Then she said we had already established that last night. I said I was only trying to open new conversation. She said "I can't believe you want me to have sex with someone else just because you want to cheat". I told her I didn't want to cheat on her, i just wanted to have sex with almost every woman I know. That got a half smile and a rolling of the eyes. Then she said I am not getting into that with you again.

I wish I could type. It has taken me about 45 minutes(or longer)to type this. There is so much more to this I want to share with you, as well as respond to what you have written. I really do appreciate everyones thoughts and advice.

Thanks for everything - Shady