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Originally Posted by VegasLee If we are not going to an on premise swing club to have sex can someone tell me why we would go there and take up space of those that are there to have sex? That is what "bars" are for. |
Golly. We've gone to an 'on premise' type thing in Vegas and an on premise campout this year...not wanting to partake in the sex right then and there at all.
Why do we go and take up space then?
To feel the great vibe and meet wonderful, open minded people. We meet people that we may hook up with later, if all works out...just not right then and there.
(sorry for the hijack!)
Onto the topic at hand... I think people think we may be a good avenue for cheap, fast, easy sex. As an added bonus, we're openminded, we won't CARE that their cheating or we would be going against our openminded ideals, right?
Except for myself, and many others, this is not true. Darn it if I don't like going out dancing and dining and heck, good (non sexual) conversation gets me all tingly feeling.
(I probably shouldn't get started on how none 'openminded' I am about cheating.)