Somewhere I got lost in this thread....
I know of many wonderful ladies that go to the club we do, both single and married that are there to get laid. They keep is simple and don't pretend otherwise. I also know many men that come there for the same reason. It seems to work well for both sexes at the club.
My own Lovely Lady in my life, Laura goes to the club to find guys that she wants to play with. She has many male friends that come there for the same reason.
I don't think that makes any of them "easier" then any others, just that they do come there with a purpose in mind and that is the place to do it.
If we are not going to an on premise swing club to have sex can someone tell me why we would go there and take up space of those that are there to have sex? That is what "bars" are for.