Spoo's thread about
Without Her... got me to thinking... (Yeah, hush already, ya'll)...
Are swingers considered an easy avenue for those who are not getting what they need/desire at home? Let's face it, any guy or gal can have a one night stand or even multiples by just spending an evening in their local tavern. This would seem to solve the immediate problem however the abundance of those that seek coupled swingers out, give me the impression that they are unable to get the 'sex for merely gratication'. Are we considered 'safer', perhaps...than a one night pick up because we adhere to certain health standards? Is it because they think we are sexually 'easy'? Does the internet entertain an idea of easiness about swingers? Are we considered cheaper and less of a hassle than seeking out one involved in prostitution? What, I ask ya? Just, what compels them...