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shadyvirgin · 07-27-2004, 02:26 PM

Hey guys, this is an awesome site. I started looking for information on this lifestyle a few weeks ago. After looking around I decided to register. Everyone seems so open and honest in all the threads I have read. Don't let the name worry you. "Shady" as in I don't want my wife to know yet that this is the direction I wanted to go when I said we needed something to spice up our sex life. "Virgin" as in I/we have been married for 8 years and have never had sex with anyone except each other.
Let me tell you what started this. I have a friend who brought up a swap at lunch a couple of weeks ago. In a joking way of course. But I was interested right away. We have talked about it several times over the weeks and I have to say he and I are very serious. My question is, how do we approach the women and are there any caution signs you see? I think both women are open minded enough that neither one would be offended by such a thought. If anyone is interested, please help. It is really bothering me - in a good way!!

07-27-2004, 02:26 PM	#1 (permalink)
shadyvirgin Active Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 10 Location: SC	How do we talk to our wives about swinging? Hey guys, this is an awesome site. I started looking for information on this lifestyle a few weeks ago. After looking around I decided to register. Everyone seems so open and honest in all the threads I have read. Don't let the name worry you. "Shady" as in I don't want my wife to know yet that this is the direction I wanted to go when I said we needed something to spice up our sex life. "Virgin" as in I/we have been married for 8 years and have never had sex with anyone except each other. Let me tell you what started this. I have a friend who brought up a swap at lunch a couple of weeks ago. In a joking way of course. But I was interested right away. We have talked about it several times over the weeks and I have to say he and I are very serious. My question is, how do we approach the women and are there any caution signs you see? I think both women are open minded enough that neither one would be offended by such a thought. If anyone is interested, please help. It is really bothering me - in a good way!!