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Look guys @ gals this is what I mean if you read my first post. I had a concern about the well being of this forum. I'm not and will not point fingers at anybody. If somebody pisses me off I will tell them out right I'm not going to point fingers call names to me that is just childish. And nobody has to this point made me that mad. And now we have people speculating who the problem is or thinking they are the problem.

Ohio couple you are right this forum is not just about sex. I have learned alot about myself, and I have a better marriage because of this site and the advise that is freely given here good down to earth tried and true advise.

I'm what I call myself a blue collar professional I have most of my education thru hands on learning and life expierances. And I'm sure there more here like me . And it tends to be intimidating when you read post when other patrons are made fun of by there use of the english language. And quoting grammer rules that journalist would only use. That is why we have so many so called lurkers here. And the sad part of this is there are people that really could use your expierances and are just afraid to ask.
And this is the point I was trying to get across
I wasn't pointing finger at anybody. We all need to read carefully think what the post is saying then give our opinions or advise.