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We also have "fuck buddies" that we only see at the club and have never exchanged phone numbers with but see them on a regular basis. We have noticed that these types are usually very busy people or professionals that don't have the time or energy to become friends.
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This describes us to a "T". We both work and have 4 children living at home. Doing what I do I also work weekends when most couples are available to play. For us to go out on a Friday or Saturday night we have to arrange childcare for 3 children and I have to take a vacation day or two. We don't have time to develop a friendship first then see what happens. We make it know that if we are going to make the arrangements to meet with someone there is a good possibility of having sex with them/him/her. We also reserve and give them the right to say "NO" without any hard feelings just in case things don't work out at during the meeting.
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Her husband asked her why they were having such a difficult time, her answer was that it was her, she was not going to fuck someone that did not meet her standards in looks, her standards being her husband. She compares every man of every couple they talk to, to her husband and finds faults with them all.
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This unfortunately is my wife's attitude also. We have just spent the weekend at a lifestyle friendly nude resort with the attitude of hooking up with someone. Since she showed no interest in anyone there I asked what she was looking for. Seems that every guy there was too something (fat,skinny,tall,hairy,big,small). Her ideal couple is my twin that is married to a BBW with acne. Also, despite being a former model, she felt threatened by every girl there. I'll be the first to admit that my standards are slightly high but out of the 50 or so couples at the resort there were still 4 or 5 couples that I think would have been fun.
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We meet most of our playmates at on-premisis clubs. We get hot and horny, start playing around and if someone wants to join in that is not repulsive we let them. A few have become friends but most we never see again.